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i can say i fall into this category. i was 21 when my son was born. it was something that scared the crap out of me. from what i read of the other thread this guy is taking a lot better than i did.
i will say that being a dad is the best thing that has happened to me. i love my son and his mom and i got married last october. we have been together for the past 5 years and have been through a lot of crap, mostly because i'm an idiot. i'm very thankful for my situation. my wife and i don't make a lot of money but we work hard, have a house, pay for the bills, and make sure our son gets what he needs and sometimes what he wants(grandparents are awesome at buying toys, except for the ones that make noise and get to stay at our house) and are happy to do so.
don't judge somebody because you don't agree with what happened. stuff happens, he's manning up and looks forward to being a dad, why put him down? put yourself in his shoes and see what you would do.
that's my .02 rant and ramble
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