This is the exact thing I've been thinking, when I was down or had problems I always turned to her. And she's come to me too.
Been a lot of relationship advice lately. Now I need some
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This is the exact thing I've been thinking, when I was down or had problems I always turned to her. And she's come to me too.
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f' bitches, make money
f' bitches, make money
Ditch the bitch an PIIT(Tanya)B
Shit after my last break up I just fixed shit that wasn't even broke to stay occupied.
True colors
That's the key here, she knows this already since you said it, so don't repeat it anymore. Also since Facebook was mentioned, update your status to single.
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This. She is dead to you. People miss the idea of what they had with someone, but the person is not the same, they change and with that what you had is no longer viable.
You have all the advice you need, now it's up to you to actually do the hard grunt work.
It's been said before, but the person who cares the least in a relationship holds all the power. So, care the least bro.
Jeff Foxworthy is right about one thing. "I need some space" is 1/2 a sentence. The other half is "without you in it." Also correct is, she has picked another horse out of the herd and if she isn't riding him yet, she already has the saddle out of the barn and ready to mount him.
It's hard to do, but the right thing to do is to move on, she obviously has. Box her stuff up, put it at her door, change your locks, DON'T run up the electric bill (that's being immature), go out enjoy life. Life is too short to spend your time trying to be with someone who don't want to be with you.
It's hard to do, but the right thing to do is to move on, she obviously has. Box her stuff up, put it at her door, change your locks, DON'T run up the electric bill (that's being immature), go out enjoy life. Life is too short to spend your time trying to be with someone who don't want to be with you.
Dude youre WAY too young to be locked down to 1 chick for 5 whole years. That the best years of your life . I would live it up and have fun. You cant force anything. Some day you will look back and think what a fool you have been. Notch up the ole bed post and live your life!
Just like how that sounded. To the OP, anytime a woman tells you she needs "space" it's time to find a new one.
Stay busy and hang out with your buddies for a while. I wouldn't go hooking up with women yet...but don't be afraid to hang out with them. Sounds like she's having the college experience that she may have never had because you guys were dating. But honestly, don't be such a pussy about stuff. You're older and were the financial supporter until recently. Don't give her this insane amount of power and make it evident that you will wait around for her (which is shown by you being up her ass non-stop, even after she told you to piss off).
Go on with your life and work on getting on with things. If she comes back, great. If not, then you've already started the recovery process. Oh, and don't give her any custody privileges over the dog (kidding...not really).
Go on with your life and work on getting on with things. If she comes back, great. If not, then you've already started the recovery process. Oh, and don't give her any custody privileges over the dog (kidding...not really).
Ever since we got him I've made sure everything with him was in my name, vet bills, shots, chip.
So youve had suspicions of the relationship going bad for how long now?
No, I've had him for over 4 years now. Always wanted him, so I made sure I would never lose him if something was to go bad. Hope for the best, plan for the worst
Move the **** on.
Don't do this with the next one. 6 months moving in wtf? :shrug:
Life is short and she's out having her fun. Cut her loose and enjoy your time before 30.
This :beer:
This is a great statement.
Sounds like I need to get over there too, lol. Wingwomen are great.
I went through something similar man. Married 21-25, she graduated (after I supported her through college) and started partying it up. She ended up as a different person, not the one I planned on spending the rest of my life with. It took me over a year to realize that but I'm much happier now that I have.
You need to turn the tables on her and be as cold as she is being to you. Funny, some women want to see a guy that will call their bluff and not be submissive. Box her chit up, and on the top of the box write "Moving or...so should you". Don't call, Don't write, if she calls you, hang up or don't pick up. Switch it up on her and make her feel like chit.
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Like many said it's hard but cut her loose your still young. Stay busy at work, start weight training, hang out with the boys. Make friends with new females just for the hell of it. If you love her prepare yourself for similar behavior in the future.
An old man in his 60's once told me,"boy the best way to get over a women is to grab 2"! :beer: Good Luck Man!
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