Go in and have the parts guys run a SPI to track the package, they can tell you if its still on backorder/when it'll be released, etc. Or you can get the part numbers offline, and just ask how long it would take to get said part number.
Exactly, very few dealerships deal with the "ford racing" stuff now (not much money in it, a lot of the stuff is sold at ~20% over cost, while other stuff is a higher markup...)
Ask who the local Ford Racing distributor is, call them direct, they will be handling all of the racing parts, and can more readily assist you
A lot of the normal guys at my dealership, (non car gurus) have NO idea about the performance stuff, I'm just into cars so I would LOVE to work in that department. Sell B303 cams and Roush exhausts all day. mmmm