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black4vcobra

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Hey all,

I've mentioned it in various threads over the last 6 months but as of last Friday I am taking on a new role in my life - father! My 8 lb 7 oz, 22" long son Owen made his grand entrance into the world at 4:53 PM on Friday, April 5.

It's a long story but I'll sum it up as concise as possible. Our due date was actually April 1st (no joke), which was a Monday, but that came and went without any progress suggesting he was coming last week so an induction date was set for April 8th. Then on Wednesday that week, I get home after work and a workout and my wife is laying in bed and saying that she's having a lot of pressure in her stomach. This was somewhat common during the pregnancy but when it didn't get better we called the hospital's on call line and since we were past due they told us to come in.

She was showing some progress and as it turns out the pressure was actually contractions. Since we were past due they decided to keep us in the hospital and induce him. This decision was made about 8 PM on Wednesday.

So we get admitted and not a ton happens for the first 16 hours. After that they ramp her up twice on Pitocin (inducing drug) and make 3 attempts to break her water before they are fully successful.

Finally on Friday afternoon they realize she's not even far enough along to start pushing so a C section is ordered, which is exactly what we didn't want but it's the best choice at this point. We get all ready for surgery and my wife is freaked, she requests to have earbuds in to listen to Pandora radio so she can't hear herself getting cut open. Well, barely 10 minutes after they start, I hear the cries of my new son! She didn't want the baby in that condition so they pull me out to hold him. As the nurse is showing me the baby I hear someone say "we have trouble in the operating room". After the lengthy labor her body was run down and started hemorrhaging - so here I am holding my 5 minute old baby and unsure what is happening to my wife, scary to say the least.

As it turns out, she lost a liter of blood - almost enough to require a transfusion but they were able to stop it with drugs. I made sure to be front and center with our baby once she was rolled back in. Pretty special moment when she first saw him and even in her drug induced stupor she had tears in her eyes and said "my baby" when she finally saw him.

We ended up staying in the hospital 4 nights since it was such a rough labor/delivery and her body needed a bit of time to recover. It was pretty brutal to stay that long but that's what it took.

My wife was such a rockstar over this entire experience. Constant, uninterrupted birthing pain for nearly 48 hours yet she stayed focused on getting our son born. My son has been amazing also - as long as he is well fed anyway. He was stuck in the birth canal for 24+ hours but his heart rate only dipped a bit once or twice, tough kid to say the least.

In his first partial day of life he met one set of grandparents (my in-laws) and the next day met my parents, my grandma, his aunt (my sister), uncle, 3 cousins and a great aunt.

This kid is amazing though. He can lift his head off my our chest if we are laying flat. The CNA giving him a bath said he is strong and was trying to crawl during his bath. The nurse that changed a diaper put him on stomach and he kicked his legs and put his arms out and took 2 little crawl steps - at 2 days old.

Anyway, enough talking about him, here is little Owen. We are pretty biased but we think he's a good looking, well developed baby and everyone immediately notices his impressive head of hair!

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And him with his great grandma who is 88 but also a rockstar -

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And with his adoring older cousins -

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His nursery is car/Route 66 themed so we are starting him early. My dad was a chip off the ol' block, I was a chip off the ol' block so we have no doubt he will be as well.

Thanks for reading guys but just wanted to share that there will be another red blooded, all American, gun loving, Ford gearhead coming along in the future.
 
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Congratulations my man and that was a good read. I’m due for my first at the end of this month

Congratulations brother. It's cliché to say but it is really a life altering experience.

Do you know if you are having a boy or girl?
 

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That was a great read. Congratulations, Mike!

I HIGHLY recommend that you document everything you said in your post. Your son will delight to hear that wonderful story when he is old enough to understand it. Do it! You can all re-live the moment together and remember how blessed you all are.

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Congratulations!!! I have a 3 yo and 8 mo and believe me when I tell you that it will go FAST!!! First couple weeks are tiring until you get a routine down and before you know it, their first birthday is rolling around the corner...
 

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Thanks all, other than losing sleep being a father is a great job!

That was a great read. Congratulations, Mike!

I HIGHLY recommend that you document everything you said in your post. Your son will delight to hear that wonderful story when he is old enough to understand it. Do it! You can all re-live the moment together and remember how blessed you all are.

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I plan on it! When he's older I want him to know that he brought immense happiness to myself and my wife.
 

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Congrats man, I'll never forget the day my son was born, my experience was quite the opposite of yours.

My son was 2 weeks away from being due, my wife was 1 day away from starting maternity leave, she was going to spend the time packing our bag and getting everything ready for him to come home. She went for her last checkup and they told her that her blood pressure was elevated and she needed to relax the rest of the day, and come back next day to recheck. She went back and they said its still high we need to induce you. So i get a phone call at work 2 weeks before my son is due saying "hey we are having a baby tomorrow, you should let your boss know". So I got home, we packed up and left for the hospital that night, they gave her the inducing drug at 10 pm and she was in a lot of pain all night, I don't think I slept any, she slept when they gave her drugs. The next morning my grandma came to the hospital and was sitting in the room, nurse comes in and said hey go ahead and step out we need to check and see how she is progressing. So grandma steps out, nurse checks and says "uhhh nevermind you are having this baby right now, grab the doctor". 15 minutes later I was holding my son.

I walked out in the waiting room and my whole immediate family has showed up, my father in law says "hey daddy to be!" I said "nope, he's here!". It was an experience I'll never forget. We stayed for 2 more days afterwards to get the circumcision done and he has to pee afterwards before they will release him. That was at 8 am, stubborn little guy waited until 9 pm before he finally peed and we could leave, still stubbon till this day! lol
 

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Congrats man, I'll never forget the day my son was born, my experience was quite the opposite of yours.

My son was 2 weeks away from being due, my wife was 1 day away from starting maternity leave, she was going to spend the time packing our bag and getting everything ready for him to come home. She went for her last checkup and they told her that her blood pressure was elevated and she needed to relax the rest of the day, and come back next day to recheck. She went back and they said its still high we need to induce you. So i get a phone call at work 2 weeks before my son is due saying "hey we are having a baby tomorrow, you should let your boss know". So I got home, we packed up and left for the hospital that night, they gave her the inducing drug at 10 pm and she was in a lot of pain all night, I don't think I slept any, she slept when they gave her drugs. The next morning my grandma came to the hospital and was sitting in the room, nurse comes in and said hey go ahead and step out we need to check and see how she is progressing. So grandma steps out, nurse checks and says "uhhh nevermind you are having this baby right now, grab the doctor". 15 minutes later I was holding my son.

I walked out in the waiting room and my whole immediate family has showed up, my father in law says "hey daddy to be!" I said "nope, he's here!". It was an experience I'll never forget. We stayed for 2 more days afterwards to get the circumcision done and he has to pee afterwards before they will release him. That was at 8 am, stubborn little guy waited until 9 pm before he finally peed and we could leave, still stubbon till this day! lol

Other than the 2 weeks early part we would have loved this! Though 2 weeks early isn't enough to worry about.

A girl. It’s going to be interesting to say the least

Yes it will! We would have loved a baby girl just the same but things are a little easier with a boy, or so I've been told

Congrats and biased or not he is a good looking little fella.

Have 2 year old twin boys myself and it's the greatest thing in the world.

What an amazing story. Congratulations to you and your wife. It truly is an amazing experience to go through.


Congrats. You're going to love the journey.

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Congrats, now you know what love is. Don't buy into all that expensive baby shit. Bare minimum will do just fine.

Agree with all this.
 

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