I don't remember the other thread that you really rubbed me the wrong way in, but this one definitely takes the cake.
I work 70-75 hours a week, plus help my wife with her new store for 10-12 hours a week. I wake up all of my kids for school before I go to work, and the second I get home from work I'm 100% dad-mode. I definitely hang out with all of my kids, whether it's my 9 year old who's in competitive dance, my 7 year old that plays soccer/baseball/basketball/hockey, my 3 year old that loves playing with racecars, tractors and trucks, and my 1.5 year old who loves wrestling around on the floor. I take them each out for dinner at least once a month by themselves. I take them each out to buy a toy or something randomly, all the time (took my 9 year old to the store last night at 8:30 because she decided to she wanted a new Chiefs shirt for school today).
I don't spend hours in the garage wrenching on things. When I go racing, the whole family comes with. I don't go on trips without my family. I don't hang out at the bars, ever. I don't make plans that don't involve the kids when we have them. I haven't been to the shooting range in well over a year. ETC ETC ETC.
My 3 year old is a handful. By the second or third day he's with us, all is smooth. A lot of the issue is when he comes to us on that first day from being back from his mom's, he's a completely different kid. Normal rules don't apply at his mom's house, and he's not having to play well with other kids there as he is the only child.
Appreciate your input, and I'm sure your likely response will be that I'm making excuses or something...guess it's a good thing I'm not paying you for advice.
Nevermind.
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