Example of yesterday.
When we are both home.
I cooked steaks. She sat on her chair. On tiktok.
Ate
She sat on her chair on her Nintendo switch afrer
Then she sat in the bath.
Then she went to bed at 930p
And I watched tv.
We talked for 15 minutes maybe
She has the “ it’s not fair” mentality.
Like she says the freedom I have of schedule blah blah money blah blah not fair.
I told her.. 8 years ago.. she was sitting behind a desk as a receptionist in Texas learning to sell insurance.
8 years ago I was in North Dakota in -20 degree weather...
Yup
Now that things are good. She’s unhappy about her career choice. And I try to explain to her welcome to ****ing 90% of people.
“ I don’t want to sit behind a desk “
So don’t.
“ well idk what else to do “
So figure it out
“ idk how to”
Okay then
What I will say that has been different …
Our biggest fight is about money. How she spends too much.. how she wants a joint bank account.
When the dog got sick.. and they asked for the up front thousands of dollars ( cause it’s an emergency vet ) and I out loud said “ **** it save the dog “...