Dude threatening to kill a friend and beat my ass what to do?

[EvoOwner]

I think we've all been in a situation like this one before. You need to cut ties with this girl, tell the guy you're not interested in her. Find another girl that isn't as nutty. Problem solved.

 

[Blackgeetee]

Originally posted by esqeddy
This is such silly bullsh!t. STOP AND THINK!!!

This chick is wacko, not the guy. The guy is just stupid. This chick is stringing this guy on seeing him sometimes, using him when she doesn't have anything better to do. Why does he have her number? In 6 months she could have had it changed. Why did she tell him where to find her? Because she wanted him to show up. If she wanted this guy gone, she knows how to do it and he would be gone.

This chick digs the drama. And YOU are being stupid enough to provide it for her. She has and is playing you. WISE UP! Tell the chick she has snakes in her head and to take a hike. If the guy shows up, laugh and tell him "You can have her, I don't want nothing to do with her." Tell him what she has told you and listen to his side of the story. God only knows what lies she has told him about you. She is probably trying to orchestrate the fight for her amusement.

As for this guy showing up and not listening. DO NOT take brass knuckles. That could land you in prison as a convicted felon doing hard time. Pepper spray is a good idea. It is an acceptable non-lethal self defense weapon that won't get you arrested. Even if you have to use it.

As for talking to the guy first. Tell the chick you want his phone number. INSIST. Then, right in front of her, call him. Look her in the eye as you tell him she has snakes in her head, that she is playing you both and calling him a stalker, and that he should quit letting her use him. Tell him that you don't want anything to do with her or him and that if he bothers you, you are going to call the police and have him arrested.

Best case scenario: The guys listens and tells you all the lies she said about you, you two have a beer and laugh about the trashy tramp while you eyeball other prospective babes.

Most likely scenario: The guys wakes up a little and realizes that she, and not you, is the problem. He confronts her and they do what ever they do. She will hate you, but leave you alone. She will make up with him and try and find someone else to manipulate for drama. You tell the boss everything that has happened and the boss will eventually replace her.

Worst case scenario: The guy is too dumb to understand and is hell bent on kicking your ass. Go make a report to the police. That way if there is a confrontation, then you have something on record that demonstrates that you wanted to avoid and prevent the confrontation. This could be important later if someone gets seriously hurt. Carry the pepper spray and get security to escort you to and from your car when coming to and leaving work. In time the issue will go away or come to a head.

Well said!! I could not have typed this out any better. Everything about this I agree with. And I also think you should call the dude up in front of her and tell him she has snakes in her head. I think I'd actually have fun with this....:rockon:

 

[KevinB120]

Originally posted by EvoOwner
I think we've all been in a situation like this one before. You need to cut ties with this girl, tell the guy you're not interested in her. Find another girl that isn't as nutty. Problem solved.

:thumbsup:

 

[Aaron_01]

I say get a fat ass gun and blow a hole through his chest

 

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[05 Roush]

Tell us how you really feel. ;-)

Actually, I think that you should steer clear of wackos. And the guy is pretty bad too.

 

[wally9404]

GIVE HER A SQUIRT AND DROP HER!!

 

[wals9331]

Girls = Evil

I posted something about this in smackdown before..i just dont remember where it was. It has equations and everything to make girls = evil .

 

[93Cobra#2771]

Let me guess, she's never said "I don't want anything to do with him, I just want him to leave me alone". Bet she's never reported him to the cops, has she? Bet she's never attempted to change her phone number, has she? So she told him exactly where she was, right down to the apartment number?

Run, run like the wind. She's using you. Run. Did I mention run? Run some more. Stop, turn around, look, and then run a little bit more. Not because you are afraid of the guy, but because you are afraid of the psycho girl...

 

[z06matt]

Let us know what happends!

 

[CraneClan]

The fact that the guy "and his friends" are gonna kick your ass tells me he's a pussy. He probably won't be any trouble. Alert the cops and make sure you tell them that, of course, you'll defend yourself. That way if you have to beat his ass, he'll have a hard time turning that around at you when he files suit, which, after a nasty ass-whoopin, is a given. Have somebody watch your back just in case, as is always good advice.

Oh, and ditch the b.......girl.

 

[trplblacksnake]

well I decided long ago to ditch her I figured out she was crazy and that it would all be better off without her. Now on the other hand I hope she doesnt quit because she is a good worker but if it causes problems well whatever she needs to do. The dude never showed up. Myself 6' 285 big guy I just look mean too many people tell me that my friend about 6' 240 or so well built and another friend shorter than me but built very built I would be afraid of the guy. Needless to say if they were there and saw us the decided not to **** with us. Maybe he'll show up on a night when I dont have my friends there. Better get the asp.

 

[wally9404]

BE A LION!!

 

[IEatGt's]

Originally posted by VenomousSVT
There is an easy way to solve your problem...you dont have to lose a friend or take an ass beating....just kill the other guy first...ok ok j/k dont try this at home kids.

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This chick is nuttier than squirrel turds!!

Good decision to jetison her, and quickly!!

thumbs up and the ASP, it will probably put you in the same situation as the brass knuckles tho.

 

[Sinister04L]

I think we've all had trouble with a "jealous ex boyfriend" before. My question is, how many of ya'll are "that guy" hmmmm?

 

[Sirhc7897]

I had a guy pull a stunt like this with me. Bad part was, the girl was just my friend and was actually getting involved with one of my friends...not even me...:rollseyes

We were all chilling at her house in the hot tub on the back deck when the guy walks in and starts jawing at me. I'm about 6' 215 but I'm real solid (been working on the family farm my whole life and can toss up 400lbs a time or two). Anyways, dude decides to rush me so I leveled him. Funny part about it was when he woke up we had the cops there and idiot actually tried to tell the cops that i attacked him...:dw: Keep in mind he was trespassing and 5 people said he verbally threatened me and then rushed me...

For 2 months after that he would ride around with his boys and tell people he was gonna jump me. Every time I myself encountered him somewhere he stayed far away...go figure.:loser:

 

[KevinB120]

Ill say it again. He never said that shit. She made it up.