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<blockquote data-quote="Revvv" data-source="post: 16098266" data-attributes="member: 189537"><p>22 years of marriage in a couple weeks. My wife truly is my better half. She is my best friend, and was long before we said "I do".</p><p></p><p>I remember standing before friends and family, saying my vows, and being terryfied. Looking back I cannot image what I would do without her. </p><p></p><p>From time to time I still officiate wedding ceremonies. I'm curious though. I refuse to perform a service without at least three months of premarital counseling. I ask a lot of questions that the couple must answer. However, the answers are not for me. I give them things to reflect upon on their own and together. </p><p></p><p>A joke went around for a while because I had a record for destroying engagements and relationships. My reply, "If you cannot survive three months of counseling together, your marriage will more than likely fail". </p><p></p><p>So far all of the marriages I was honored to officiate are still intact. That isn't to say there haven't been hard times. Hard times are going to happen. </p><p></p><p>I am not a fan of divorce, though I have counseled many through it. I have sat in courtrooms and listened to people I love tear one anther apart. On rare occasion I have even advised divorce. Divorce is generally not the answer though. Selfishness and pride is usually the reason, and you have to get out of the way to make it work. In marriage, and in life; everything is not about you. </p><p></p><p>I am still a guy though. I screw up daily. My wife has come to understand that there is no such creature as an adult male. We are just big children, and normally need a babysitter.</p><p></p><p>Sent from my SM-G900V using Tapatalk</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Revvv, post: 16098266, member: 189537"] 22 years of marriage in a couple weeks. My wife truly is my better half. She is my best friend, and was long before we said "I do". I remember standing before friends and family, saying my vows, and being terryfied. Looking back I cannot image what I would do without her. From time to time I still officiate wedding ceremonies. I'm curious though. I refuse to perform a service without at least three months of premarital counseling. I ask a lot of questions that the couple must answer. However, the answers are not for me. I give them things to reflect upon on their own and together. A joke went around for a while because I had a record for destroying engagements and relationships. My reply, "If you cannot survive three months of counseling together, your marriage will more than likely fail". So far all of the marriages I was honored to officiate are still intact. That isn't to say there haven't been hard times. Hard times are going to happen. I am not a fan of divorce, though I have counseled many through it. I have sat in courtrooms and listened to people I love tear one anther apart. On rare occasion I have even advised divorce. Divorce is generally not the answer though. Selfishness and pride is usually the reason, and you have to get out of the way to make it work. In marriage, and in life; everything is not about you. I am still a guy though. I screw up daily. My wife has come to understand that there is no such creature as an adult male. We are just big children, and normally need a babysitter. Sent from my SM-G900V using Tapatalk [/QUOTE]
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