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<blockquote data-quote="cbj5259" data-source="post: 16102401" data-attributes="member: 75268"><p>I wish it was that easy. I wish there was a secret formula for marital success. I was with my ex wife for 5 years prior to marriage. We lived together for 4 of them. Were happy as happy could be. We got married...were going to grow old together...and then one day, 7 years into our marriage and after 12 years of being together, having a child together and being generally happy...I'm informed that she had been sleeping with another married man for the past 18 months, loved him and was leaving me for him. Utter gut punch and no warning. My world was turned on its head. It was not a possibility...she was my soulmate I believed...but yet it still happened. I'm left with the fact that people are unreliable...and they lie and cheat. Its human nature. Are there successful marriages that last 50 years? Sure...but they are extremely rare. Even most longterm marriages (ones over 25 years) most people are just tolerating each other...I would not classify them as loving, fulfilling relationships, more like just hanging on because splitting is too difficult. Are there exceptions? Absolutely, but the overwhelming majority are as I described or have already failed. Not to be a pessimist, but the stats support my assertion. Prior to the womens lib movement, women just grinned and bared it. After they found their "liberation" in the late 60s that is when divorce rates skyrocketed and the traditional family unit began eroding. Women file for divorce in nearly 80% of all divorces. Newer statistics suggest that women cheat on their husbands at at least an equal rate to men...and perhaps even higher. Modern women are broken...and feminism is to blame.</p><p></p><p>Sent from my SM-N950U using Tapatalk</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="cbj5259, post: 16102401, member: 75268"] I wish it was that easy. I wish there was a secret formula for marital success. I was with my ex wife for 5 years prior to marriage. We lived together for 4 of them. Were happy as happy could be. We got married...were going to grow old together...and then one day, 7 years into our marriage and after 12 years of being together, having a child together and being generally happy...I'm informed that she had been sleeping with another married man for the past 18 months, loved him and was leaving me for him. Utter gut punch and no warning. My world was turned on its head. It was not a possibility...she was my soulmate I believed...but yet it still happened. I'm left with the fact that people are unreliable...and they lie and cheat. Its human nature. Are there successful marriages that last 50 years? Sure...but they are extremely rare. Even most longterm marriages (ones over 25 years) most people are just tolerating each other...I would not classify them as loving, fulfilling relationships, more like just hanging on because splitting is too difficult. Are there exceptions? Absolutely, but the overwhelming majority are as I described or have already failed. Not to be a pessimist, but the stats support my assertion. Prior to the womens lib movement, women just grinned and bared it. After they found their "liberation" in the late 60s that is when divorce rates skyrocketed and the traditional family unit began eroding. Women file for divorce in nearly 80% of all divorces. Newer statistics suggest that women cheat on their husbands at at least an equal rate to men...and perhaps even higher. Modern women are broken...and feminism is to blame. Sent from my SM-N950U using Tapatalk [/QUOTE]
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