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<blockquote data-quote="90GSXDan" data-source="post: 10077219" data-attributes="member: 40417"><p>I seriously dont get this... How does everyones "friends" take the keys with either you being asleep, at a party, banging their sisters, whatever, and crashing it? I seriously NEVER let ANYONE drive my car EVER, let alone let someone take it while Im intoxicated, sleeping, or just plain ****ing. And I dont know what kind of "friend" or person it takes to just grabs someones belongings thats clearly not theirs (they did NOT pay for it, nor do they pay insurance on it, hell let alone put gas in it!) and proceed to thrash on it and put it into a non-moving object! </p><p></p><p>Honestly, for you to be so cool about it, there has to be some things missing to the story. I dont know 1 person in there right mind to just blow it off and handle it like (no offense) a little bitch. Im not going to come on here acting like a tough guy and say "I woulda knocked his teeth in, Redneck UFC watchin' Mui-Thai style" or "I would of simply shot the guy in the eye ball with the cops looking", but seriously come on! Dont just sit there and wait for things to happen. PUSH for things to happen. He's obviously not a friend, and if he is a friend, then he wouldnt mind paying up for the damage he's clearly caused! A real friend would know when he is in the wrong and does something about it. I know if Im driving my buddies car (which I have with his permission with himself in the passenger seat) and something has happened like breaking an axle. I simply apologized first, then the very next day after work, I picked up and payed for a brand new axle and installed if for him. </p><p></p><p>All bullshit aside, seriously PUSH for something to happen. There are only 2 ways this SHOULD BE PLAYING OUT!</p><p></p><p>1) He's your friend, you still see him as your friend. Simply explain to him that you are his friend and yes he did make a mistake, although question him what was he thinking that gave him the right to drive your car without permission, even after giving him your clean cut rules of how to drive the car. Then say although we are friends, this is just something too big to eat, and either him or his insurance company is going to HAVE to foot the bill. If he doesnt comply, then say "well then Im going to further speak to my lawyers and see if we can push for us to press charges, Im sorry but you leave me no choice". Simple as that, you dont have to be a douche or do what most of these guys cant, which is kick his ass, but you have to enforce this and you have to be aggressive about it. </p><p></p><p>Or 2) He's clearly not your friend, so you should have no problems pressing charges, getting him for theft (BTW, that shit the cop said made no sense, there is no "time frame" of giving permission to someone ONCE and its ok for him to drive it an hour later while your sleeping. Plain and simple.) and getting his insurance company involved. If he is going to be a ****in coward and a asshole (which it clearly seems like it), then be an asshole 100x's more!!! Don't tip toe around him, grow a set and say "Listen, you ****ed up and you know it! Now you have to pay for it! Its not going to fix itself and dont think your not pay up after your own ****ups! This is your mess, now its time to clean it up!" Quit being a bitch about it and stand up bro.</p><p></p><p>Seriously though, Im not saying this to be a dick, as Im only trying to help you out and Ive already given you the 2 scenarios and best way to handle them, but something is just not adding up. You seem way to nice about it, especially after you found out he is showing pics and laughing about it, but also because the way how you described to the police how you only gave him permission to drive it home under strict rules? To me, something just isnt adding up because it seems a bit too clean cut and you are taking it rather lightly which is even making some people on here rather annoyed and angry.</p><p></p><p>Take my advice, the less amount you do, the more it makes you look guilty.</p><p></p><p>Dan :beer:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="90GSXDan, post: 10077219, member: 40417"] I seriously dont get this... How does everyones "friends" take the keys with either you being asleep, at a party, banging their sisters, whatever, and crashing it? I seriously NEVER let ANYONE drive my car EVER, let alone let someone take it while Im intoxicated, sleeping, or just plain ****ing. And I dont know what kind of "friend" or person it takes to just grabs someones belongings thats clearly not theirs (they did NOT pay for it, nor do they pay insurance on it, hell let alone put gas in it!) and proceed to thrash on it and put it into a non-moving object! Honestly, for you to be so cool about it, there has to be some things missing to the story. I dont know 1 person in there right mind to just blow it off and handle it like (no offense) a little bitch. Im not going to come on here acting like a tough guy and say "I woulda knocked his teeth in, Redneck UFC watchin' Mui-Thai style" or "I would of simply shot the guy in the eye ball with the cops looking", but seriously come on! Dont just sit there and wait for things to happen. PUSH for things to happen. He's obviously not a friend, and if he is a friend, then he wouldnt mind paying up for the damage he's clearly caused! A real friend would know when he is in the wrong and does something about it. I know if Im driving my buddies car (which I have with his permission with himself in the passenger seat) and something has happened like breaking an axle. I simply apologized first, then the very next day after work, I picked up and payed for a brand new axle and installed if for him. All bullshit aside, seriously PUSH for something to happen. There are only 2 ways this SHOULD BE PLAYING OUT! 1) He's your friend, you still see him as your friend. Simply explain to him that you are his friend and yes he did make a mistake, although question him what was he thinking that gave him the right to drive your car without permission, even after giving him your clean cut rules of how to drive the car. Then say although we are friends, this is just something too big to eat, and either him or his insurance company is going to HAVE to foot the bill. If he doesnt comply, then say "well then Im going to further speak to my lawyers and see if we can push for us to press charges, Im sorry but you leave me no choice". Simple as that, you dont have to be a douche or do what most of these guys cant, which is kick his ass, but you have to enforce this and you have to be aggressive about it. Or 2) He's clearly not your friend, so you should have no problems pressing charges, getting him for theft (BTW, that shit the cop said made no sense, there is no "time frame" of giving permission to someone ONCE and its ok for him to drive it an hour later while your sleeping. Plain and simple.) and getting his insurance company involved. If he is going to be a ****in coward and a asshole (which it clearly seems like it), then be an asshole 100x's more!!! Don't tip toe around him, grow a set and say "Listen, you ****ed up and you know it! Now you have to pay for it! Its not going to fix itself and dont think your not pay up after your own ****ups! This is your mess, now its time to clean it up!" Quit being a bitch about it and stand up bro. Seriously though, Im not saying this to be a dick, as Im only trying to help you out and Ive already given you the 2 scenarios and best way to handle them, but something is just not adding up. You seem way to nice about it, especially after you found out he is showing pics and laughing about it, but also because the way how you described to the police how you only gave him permission to drive it home under strict rules? To me, something just isnt adding up because it seems a bit too clean cut and you are taking it rather lightly which is even making some people on here rather annoyed and angry. Take my advice, the less amount you do, the more it makes you look guilty. Dan :beer: [/QUOTE]
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