The fuel cleaner comment was intended for r3dfire - he's having the same problem as you and I don't think that cleaner he added will do anything. Always difficult to communicate intent on the internet...
You're definitely on the right track. I really don't think it's the filter in your case based on what you've said and what's wrong. And it's not the FRPS. And if it's the FPDM it has to be that it's having some intermittent/hard-to-diagnose problem.
I definitely think that it's not your alternator. Your voltage seems fine across the board.
If one pump was locked up, when the car commands the bump in pressure under high-temp conditions, it would make sense that the FPDC would max out and act crazy. It's hard to diagnose that without pulling the pumps though.... can you test them somehow without dropping the tank?
I never really expected fuel cleaner to resolve my issue. More of a pipedream so I didn't have to drop my tank . Im almost certain it is a failing fuel pump on my application. Car has sat for the better part of the year, I just replaced my alternator with a mechman unit as I was seeing mid to low 11's volts in my datalog. Prior was upper 12's, low 13's. Thought maybe I wasn't getting enough volts to run the pumps. I kept seeing 100% fuel duty cycle and low fuel pressure when going into boost. With the new alternator volts look good (mid 13's), but I still have the same low fuel pressure when going into boost. I need to drop the tank and look at everything: filter, lines, pumps. I doubt its a kinked line, nothings changed and the car ran flawless before. Doubt its the filter, everything is about a year old now, so that leaves me to believe its the pumps based off the data and weird noise Im hearing from my fuel tank. Ill report my findings back when I get around to dropping the tank...