You are a good man, I totally agree. Tough choice to make. You have an amazing car and you'll miss it big time if you sell but you'll figure it out. PM me if those wheels become available.
Just for a counter point to many of the comments, I'm on the side of giving your daughter as nice a wedding as you can reasonably afford. We saved and saved, so having just plunked down a bunch I understand the sentiment against wasting. But weddings are a once every two or three years event for our family and some come from far away for these mini-reunions. This one was our turn to host. Daughter and wife did a great job finding ways to save money and keep it under budget - venue 90 minutes away in the mountains, homemade invitations, homemade goody bags, had a DJ instead of band, etc. Every bit of it was worth it when I saw her in that gown and walked her down the aisle. It was an incredibly special once in a lifetime experience. Genuine faith is at the center of these kids' lives and it was also at the center of the rehearsal dinner, the ceremony, the whole thing. There was no drama except when I couldn't find my dang bow tie and had to borrow one from the formal shop in town.
Just for a counter point to many of the comments, I'm on the side of giving your daughter as nice a wedding as you can reasonably afford. We saved and saved, so having just plunked down a bunch I understand the sentiment against wasting. But weddings are a once every two or three years event for our family and some come from far away for these mini-reunions. This one was our turn to host. Daughter and wife did a great job finding ways to save money and keep it under budget - venue 90 minutes away in the mountains, homemade invitations, homemade goody bags, had a DJ instead of band, etc. Every bit of it was worth it when I saw her in that gown and walked her down the aisle. It was an incredibly special once in a lifetime experience. Genuine faith is at the center of these kids' lives and it was also at the center of the rehearsal dinner, the ceremony, the whole thing. There was no drama except when I couldn't find my dang bow tie and had to borrow one from the formal shop in town.
