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<blockquote data-quote="9397SVTs" data-source="post: 16252884" data-attributes="member: 143297"><p>I suggest that you wait a couple of years. The two of you are still newlyweds, where everything is still new, rainbows and unicorns, and each are on their best behavior. Settle in and get to know each other first.</p><p></p><p>Do your finances allow for your wife to quit work and stay home to raise your child? Maybe you'll need to wait or downsize and make a few sacrifices. Or, do you plan on sacrificing your child so she can work and you two can keep your things? </p><p></p><p>Having and raising a child is a very serious undertaking. One that needs to be accomplished by a mother and father, not some stranger. Particularly in the first 3 years. How do you expect to bond with your child if it spends 10 hours a day with a stranger in daycare? (assuming mother works 8 hr days) The child will spend more time being neglected in daycare than it spends with you and your wife each and every week. Would you choose this life for yourself?</p><p></p><p>Take some time and research parenting and child development. Unfortunately, with today's society, daycare is encouraged and widely accepted. You'll need to weed through all of the overwhelming Pro's to find the Con's, but really pay attention to what is said.</p><p></p><p>I asked this question earlier in the post, if you could choose for yourself, would you want to be raised by a nanny, a stranger in daycare, or a loving mother? The answer is obvious. So, why would you choose something different for your child?</p><p></p><p>BTW, I do have kids and I practiced what I preach. Eventually, my wife did go back to work, but only part time in the evenings after I got home from work.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="9397SVTs, post: 16252884, member: 143297"] I suggest that you wait a couple of years. The two of you are still newlyweds, where everything is still new, rainbows and unicorns, and each are on their best behavior. Settle in and get to know each other first. Do your finances allow for your wife to quit work and stay home to raise your child? Maybe you'll need to wait or downsize and make a few sacrifices. Or, do you plan on sacrificing your child so she can work and you two can keep your things? Having and raising a child is a very serious undertaking. One that needs to be accomplished by a mother and father, not some stranger. Particularly in the first 3 years. How do you expect to bond with your child if it spends 10 hours a day with a stranger in daycare? (assuming mother works 8 hr days) The child will spend more time being neglected in daycare than it spends with you and your wife each and every week. Would you choose this life for yourself? Take some time and research parenting and child development. Unfortunately, with today's society, daycare is encouraged and widely accepted. You'll need to weed through all of the overwhelming Pro's to find the Con's, but really pay attention to what is said. I asked this question earlier in the post, if you could choose for yourself, would you want to be raised by a nanny, a stranger in daycare, or a loving mother? The answer is obvious. So, why would you choose something different for your child? BTW, I do have kids and I practiced what I preach. Eventually, my wife did go back to work, but only part time in the evenings after I got home from work. [/QUOTE]
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