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Road Side Pub
Found my father and dont know what to do.
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<blockquote data-quote="sLOWDOHC" data-source="post: 2085629" data-attributes="member: 11368"><p>I havent seen my real dad in a good 16-17 years, before then it was a good 5 and before then I was just months old when my mom left him. I really could care less if I ever meet him again. Unfortunatly his brothers are the same way. My Grandfather was a great guy, but lived some 1500 miles away. When he passes he left each of us (grand kids) some money cause the dads were never around. I spent a summer or two with him, and that pretty much showed me why my mom left him. </p><p></p><p>When I was 10, my mom married the guy I call Dad. With him, I didnt need anyone else. They have since devored, he remarried and has a kid. Me having a son now also, its like old times when we get together. He was always there for me, did what a dad was supposed to do. </p><p></p><p>So here I am...24 with a 7mo old boy and a 10yr old stepson (not married, but might as well be). His dad is a complete POS, been locked up a few times, in the past months. Never makes an attempt to care for him. Wont even get him a haircut the one time every few months he makes a half assed attempt to see him; and even then its mostly AJs doing to get in contact with him. He really looks up to me, so I do what I can to be there for him as much as possible. I know exactly what its like to be in his shoes. Its hard being a hair older than 24, but Im trying...</p><p></p><p>After my long story, I say make an attempt, and leave the door open. See what happens and keep an open mind like most said.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="sLOWDOHC, post: 2085629, member: 11368"] I havent seen my real dad in a good 16-17 years, before then it was a good 5 and before then I was just months old when my mom left him. I really could care less if I ever meet him again. Unfortunatly his brothers are the same way. My Grandfather was a great guy, but lived some 1500 miles away. When he passes he left each of us (grand kids) some money cause the dads were never around. I spent a summer or two with him, and that pretty much showed me why my mom left him. When I was 10, my mom married the guy I call Dad. With him, I didnt need anyone else. They have since devored, he remarried and has a kid. Me having a son now also, its like old times when we get together. He was always there for me, did what a dad was supposed to do. So here I am...24 with a 7mo old boy and a 10yr old stepson (not married, but might as well be). His dad is a complete POS, been locked up a few times, in the past months. Never makes an attempt to care for him. Wont even get him a haircut the one time every few months he makes a half assed attempt to see him; and even then its mostly AJs doing to get in contact with him. He really looks up to me, so I do what I can to be there for him as much as possible. I know exactly what its like to be in his shoes. Its hard being a hair older than 24, but Im trying... After my long story, I say make an attempt, and leave the door open. See what happens and keep an open mind like most said. [/QUOTE]
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