Friends and Enemies of Friends

[NorCalRedfire]

I have a problem that I would like to share and get some feedback on -

I have two friends and these two friends both like me but they do not like each other. One of these friends has been bugging me to stop being friends with the other. I do not think that is fair as I have never gotten between them or taken sides. I would like to stay friends with both.

What do you think?

 

[FuryShift]

:shrug:



Tell the selfish one to get a woman.

 

[GregMatty]

I guess it depends if you like him, or like him like him? Does one of them write his first name with your last name behind it? That means something.

Sorry for the above, but this sounds like grade school. Having said that, it is up to the two of them to accept your friendship uncondtionally, if either of them have an issue with that, then they are acting like third graders and I would tell them so.

Greg

 

[Tabres]

I'd politely explain to them that a real friend wouldn't make me do that.

 

[REPOEDsDIME]

Are u serious. I would tell 'em to screw themselves if they can't get over their B.S. Like said before...sounds like 3rd graders to me, they need to get over it, and you need to find new friends.

 

[NorCalRedfire]

Unfortunately I am serious - the problem is I am in the middle of these children but they are both friends I want to keep.

Note to Greg - I'm already married - for 18 years now to the same woman - these are just friends.

 

[FuryShift]

I wasn't understanding where Greg was coming from until I saw where you live. :rolling: :kaboom:

 

[SVT4ME]

Just tell them both that dont put me in the middle. If you want to hang then do it if not then dont.

 

[RedlineNSX]

Im sorry to hear about your sit. I agree with SVT4ME, tell them not to put you in the middle. You can still be friends with both and its childish for them not to think so.

 

[KevinB120]

Friends that give you an ultimatum like that..........do I need to say more?:shrug: