My bro came in from Hawaii over christmas break for a few weeks and brought his PS3... I really wasn't too impressed with it... I dunno maybe its just because the games are lacking like you said. Resistance is in no way any competition for gears of war... or any shooter game for ps3. So far I think I like my HD-DVD player better then the blue ray also... should be interesting to see which format wins.
360 has a wey better UI and online community too, can't really say I'm a big fan of the controller for the ps3 either. I do like how they are really light though, but no more rumble reature.
I picked up a wii yesterday too... pretty cool little deal for $249, only played one game of bowling so far, but it was fun... I spent the entire evening last night sorting out the "Jungle" behind my TV.