OP, you're probably the only person who doesn't want the captains chairs in the second row... as a step father of four (3 boys living with us) and in the process of adopting my ten year old nephew, the second row bench would absolutely be destroyed after 6 months of them going into the third row seat..
We have a 15 Hyundai Santa Fe Limited, can tow 5k lbs, awd, and loaded with over 100k on it. we don't plan on getting rid of it until the kids are grown and out the house. it may not be a "full size" suv, but it gets the job done at 20+ mpg.
Personally i'd look at a 2018+, the 3.3 v6 is a good motor.
We have a 15 Hyundai Santa Fe Limited, can tow 5k lbs, awd, and loaded with over 100k on it. we don't plan on getting rid of it until the kids are grown and out the house. it may not be a "full size" suv, but it gets the job done at 20+ mpg.
Personally i'd look at a 2018+, the 3.3 v6 is a good motor.