Hey Fellas, I need help with understanding this message. I pretty much know what it means, but my psyche is in denial because I don't want it to be the truth. This has been bothering me for over a week now. This girl I've been dating brought out some skeletons from her past. Apparently she used to talk to an aquaintence of mine, but I met her before I met him. I couldn't talk to her because I was with someone else at the time and when this girl and me started dating, a week later I became aquainted with him, met him through a buddy of mine. Well just last week she tells me this: "I used to see the guy (your aquaintence) on a personal but not serious level....if you know what I mean" she said she didn't really feel the need to tell me because it was before me. So I'm thinking they used to be F buddies b/c of the word "personal", but I'm having a difficult time accepting it. Does this seem accurate? Does my inference seem correct?
We got into a big argument about this, but she had some valid points which were more prevailant than mine. One of her points she mentioned was that her past was her past and it was before me and her past should not reflect on or alter what is now.
We got into a big argument about this, but she had some valid points which were more prevailant than mine. One of her points she mentioned was that her past was her past and it was before me and her past should not reflect on or alter what is now.