How many of the officers here have been divorced? Cops have a sky high divorce rate. I'm getting one now...:sad This sucks.
How many officers?
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Sorry to hear that...
My brother's a police officer and is just about to have his divorce finalized...:sad
My brother's a police officer and is just about to have his divorce finalized...:sad
Thanks guys, this is the third time we have split, think it's the last time.
sohowcome
Captain Obvious
*shoots Jeremy with his service revolver
bad bad bad poor guy is going through pain
It does seem that most local law enforcement officers I deal with and are friends with go through either divorce or just shitty marriages more than once. I think it has to do with the "cop grouppies." You know guys, the 18 to 30 year old girls that like to hang around patrol cars, or cop bars or what until 2- 3am to just meet up with you at the diner, etc..
this drives wives insane. then among cop wives, if one cop is cheating so is there partner. man paranoia runs deep and gets to be old after a while.
I think in the past five years, I have had about six friends stay at my home while either getting seperated or going through the divorce.
Now on the Federal level, we don't see this phenomenon too much, because Feds are less accessible to the grouppies and there is no "really cool" blue uniform or a gun on the outside. So, I guess things are better that way.
I feel bad for thegood guys that don't cheat and just get caught up in the mess of a partner or a paranoid spouse, seen that before too.
Good luck
Adam
this drives wives insane. then among cop wives, if one cop is cheating so is there partner. man paranoia runs deep and gets to be old after a while.
I think in the past five years, I have had about six friends stay at my home while either getting seperated or going through the divorce.
Now on the Federal level, we don't see this phenomenon too much, because Feds are less accessible to the grouppies and there is no "really cool" blue uniform or a gun on the outside. So, I guess things are better that way.
I feel bad for thegood guys that don't cheat and just get caught up in the mess of a partner or a paranoid spouse, seen that before too.
Good luck
Adam
Update....
We got back together, split again....got back together again....
We got back together, split again....got back together again....
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Captain Obvious
Hillie,
Hate to get biblical on you, but in the bible there is a phrase saying this "Though Shall not be unequaly yoked" What in my opinion that means is that even though you have great feelings for someone (ie your wife) There is just not that thread that will make it last. I think you did the right thing, by what you said anyways. Hope you and tammi are it, the two peas in a pod and soul mates... Good luck!
-zach
Hate to get biblical on you, but in the bible there is a phrase saying this "Though Shall not be unequaly yoked" What in my opinion that means is that even though you have great feelings for someone (ie your wife) There is just not that thread that will make it last. I think you did the right thing, by what you said anyways. Hope you and tammi are it, the two peas in a pod and soul mates... Good luck!
-zach
We were together for 3 years before we were married...9 months after.
Nillie,
Been there before myself.
Do what is the best for you and know in your heart you are a good man!!!!!
God bless and best of luck.
Everyone deserves happiness
Adam
Been there before myself.
Do what is the best for you and know in your heart you are a good man!!!!!
God bless and best of luck.
Everyone deserves happiness
Adam
sohowcome
Captain Obvious
LOL Nillie eh???
Hillie
Think posative. GOOD LUCK.
JR
Think posative. GOOD LUCK.
JR
Just stay positive about things and everything will work out. It always does, just give it time.
Tammi is the girl I'm with now, I'm much happier.
sohowcome
Captain Obvious
Thats good..... sorry for getting biblical on you like that
It's all good bro!
My dad was a cop for 32 years retired in Nov. and has had 4 divorces and is working on his 5th.
WOW! That must be tough. I always said that I would NEVER get married. When I did I swore up and down I wouldn't be another statistic and get a divorce. Well...I think in the long run I will be happier where I am now though.
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