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I lost my mom, she was just 58 and my only parent.
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<blockquote data-quote="04SVT_COBRA" data-source="post: 15227466" data-attributes="member: 63777"><p>Very sorry to hear about your loss, that is devastating. I lost my mom last September to cancer (54 years old) a few months after we discovered it, and also lost my grandmother (my mom's mother) a couple months before that. We were all im my moms room on a beautiful Sunday morning when she passed. That image is one that will be forever burned in my head. She was such a strong stubborn women who NEVER asked or even wanted help, so to see her in the condition she was in was so hard. I watched as she took her last breath and it just hasn't felt the same since. I know that deep empty pain you feel right now. That pain where it just feels like a giant void in the middle of your chest. I luckily still have my dad (73 years old), so I can only imagine how you must be feeling. I am 25 and still lived at home and that obviously makes it even worse because I live in a house that is 100% decorated by her. We still have food in our pantry that she bought, and daily I realise things she did for us that nobody every gave her credit for. I used to look back at last year and say "That was the worst year of my life, by far", but now I look back and say "That was the most challenging year of my life, by far". Sadly, there is nothing we can do to change the past or bring loved ones back. We can only remember the good times we had, and work to better the relationships that we still have. I put on about 40 pounds of fat since my mom got sick last year and my bad habbits got worse after she passed. I stopped focusing on what I was trying to accomplish (day trading) and I let myself go both physically and emotionally. Take your time to mourn, but don't let that process make a negative impact on what you need to accomplish in life. I look back at last year now and I know that pain has made me such a better person for having reflected deeply upon myself and my beliefs which made me change many things about myself and how I view and handle things. I always thought I would have more time to foster a better relationship with my mom, but I never really got that chance, and that is one regret that hurts me deeply. There is nothing I can do now but make sure I don't make that same mistake with the people I am still lucky enough to have around me. Again, I am deeply sorry for your loss, but just know that she is in peace now and if she is somewhere looking down, she would be happy to see you improve from a horrible time in your life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="04SVT_COBRA, post: 15227466, member: 63777"] Very sorry to hear about your loss, that is devastating. I lost my mom last September to cancer (54 years old) a few months after we discovered it, and also lost my grandmother (my mom's mother) a couple months before that. We were all im my moms room on a beautiful Sunday morning when she passed. That image is one that will be forever burned in my head. She was such a strong stubborn women who NEVER asked or even wanted help, so to see her in the condition she was in was so hard. I watched as she took her last breath and it just hasn't felt the same since. I know that deep empty pain you feel right now. That pain where it just feels like a giant void in the middle of your chest. I luckily still have my dad (73 years old), so I can only imagine how you must be feeling. I am 25 and still lived at home and that obviously makes it even worse because I live in a house that is 100% decorated by her. We still have food in our pantry that she bought, and daily I realise things she did for us that nobody every gave her credit for. I used to look back at last year and say "That was the worst year of my life, by far", but now I look back and say "That was the most challenging year of my life, by far". Sadly, there is nothing we can do to change the past or bring loved ones back. We can only remember the good times we had, and work to better the relationships that we still have. I put on about 40 pounds of fat since my mom got sick last year and my bad habbits got worse after she passed. I stopped focusing on what I was trying to accomplish (day trading) and I let myself go both physically and emotionally. Take your time to mourn, but don't let that process make a negative impact on what you need to accomplish in life. I look back at last year now and I know that pain has made me such a better person for having reflected deeply upon myself and my beliefs which made me change many things about myself and how I view and handle things. I always thought I would have more time to foster a better relationship with my mom, but I never really got that chance, and that is one regret that hurts me deeply. There is nothing I can do now but make sure I don't make that same mistake with the people I am still lucky enough to have around me. Again, I am deeply sorry for your loss, but just know that she is in peace now and if she is somewhere looking down, she would be happy to see you improve from a horrible time in your life. [/QUOTE]
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