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Married Life - What would you do - Advice
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<blockquote data-quote="RDJ" data-source="post: 16113014" data-attributes="member: 5905"><p>Not all women are cut out to me mothers. just like not all men are cut out to be dads. if your description is accurate she is not cut out to be a mom and if you really want kids get out now, or adjust your expectations and take some solace in your nieces and nephews. She will not make a good mom, she cannot "teach your child to be smart", children cannot be "taught to be smart". you have a choice to make, stay with her and have no kids, leave her find someone who wants to have kids and have a few and those are your only choices. there is not "well if you have one you will see you can love one" it doesn't work that way. </p><p></p><p>as far as your mom goes, you have zero obligations to her folks, she has zero obligations to yours. your mom set the stage for their relationship early on, and you are now dealing with the consequences, in this respect be glad you don't have kids because the kids will be affected by their relationship and not in a good way. </p><p></p><p>you set the stage for her attitude toward your drinking early on and now she is wary of your "cutting down" can't blame her for that at all. </p><p></p><p>Frankly my advice based on your two lengthy posts is to get out while you can and before you even accidentally get her preggers and then have to deal with kids and subject them to the unhappiness that will result.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RDJ, post: 16113014, member: 5905"] Not all women are cut out to me mothers. just like not all men are cut out to be dads. if your description is accurate she is not cut out to be a mom and if you really want kids get out now, or adjust your expectations and take some solace in your nieces and nephews. She will not make a good mom, she cannot "teach your child to be smart", children cannot be "taught to be smart". you have a choice to make, stay with her and have no kids, leave her find someone who wants to have kids and have a few and those are your only choices. there is not "well if you have one you will see you can love one" it doesn't work that way. as far as your mom goes, you have zero obligations to her folks, she has zero obligations to yours. your mom set the stage for their relationship early on, and you are now dealing with the consequences, in this respect be glad you don't have kids because the kids will be affected by their relationship and not in a good way. you set the stage for her attitude toward your drinking early on and now she is wary of your "cutting down" can't blame her for that at all. Frankly my advice based on your two lengthy posts is to get out while you can and before you even accidentally get her preggers and then have to deal with kids and subject them to the unhappiness that will result. [/QUOTE]
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