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Married Life - What would you do - Advice
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<blockquote data-quote="9397SVTs" data-source="post: 16113214" data-attributes="member: 143297"><p>From what you have said, it seems that you are both in a tough spot. You mentioned breaking up a few times while dating and you chased after her. With the vision of hindsight, what was going on then that would be red flags that you recognize now?</p><p></p><p>You both agreed to not have kids. You both agreed to marry. It's not fair for you to change the rules and then be mad at her.</p><p></p><p>You have no obligation to your mother. You are an adult and a married man. Your only obligation is to your wife and marriage.</p><p>You say she is a psychopath and that you have contemplated suicide as a result of the relationship. Does maintaining a relationship with her sound like a good idea? Does subjecting your wife to a relationship with her sound like a good idea?</p><p></p><p>You say that you don't drink a lot, but already dumped a couple hundred dollars of beer and still have another $500-$1000 worth of beer/liquor? I don't drink, but that sounds like a lot. Does she come from a family with an alcoholic?</p><p></p><p>It seems that, possibly, you were not ready for a relationship, yet alone, marriage. Did the two of you make a mistake in getting married?</p><p></p><p>If the two of you are truly committed to each other and the marriage, then counseling would be a good idea. If you really want kids and she doesn't, is this a deal breaker for you?</p><p></p><p>Don't take any of this as a personal attack or judgment. I am only trying to provide an opinion/ideas of the situation you describe.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="9397SVTs, post: 16113214, member: 143297"] From what you have said, it seems that you are both in a tough spot. You mentioned breaking up a few times while dating and you chased after her. With the vision of hindsight, what was going on then that would be red flags that you recognize now? You both agreed to not have kids. You both agreed to marry. It's not fair for you to change the rules and then be mad at her. You have no obligation to your mother. You are an adult and a married man. Your only obligation is to your wife and marriage. You say she is a psychopath and that you have contemplated suicide as a result of the relationship. Does maintaining a relationship with her sound like a good idea? Does subjecting your wife to a relationship with her sound like a good idea? You say that you don't drink a lot, but already dumped a couple hundred dollars of beer and still have another $500-$1000 worth of beer/liquor? I don't drink, but that sounds like a lot. Does she come from a family with an alcoholic? It seems that, possibly, you were not ready for a relationship, yet alone, marriage. Did the two of you make a mistake in getting married? If the two of you are truly committed to each other and the marriage, then counseling would be a good idea. If you really want kids and she doesn't, is this a deal breaker for you? Don't take any of this as a personal attack or judgment. I am only trying to provide an opinion/ideas of the situation you describe. [/QUOTE]
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