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Married Life - What would you do - Advice
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<blockquote data-quote="Zemedici" data-source="post: 16113300" data-attributes="member: 146355"><p>Tough spot indeed, op.</p><p></p><p>After reading through the entire thread. </p><p></p><p>I have one question, and think truthfully. </p><p></p><p>Do you feel your wife has your back, 100%? I’m distant from my old ladies folks, but that’s due to circumstance. Tanya understands, and accepts that fact. Her parents are VASTLY different from mine, as mine are more involved / caring. Tanyas grown to enjoy my parents company, and i cherish that. </p><p></p><p>It’s important to compromise. Does your wife KNOW her not helping with your mom bothers you? Does she KNOW you have total control over your drinking, and she need not worry? 4 beers a week is far from abnormal. People i know (when they were a functioning alcoholic) drank 12-18 per day. For years. Never went to work drunk, never late to work. 4 beers is nothing. </p><p></p><p>The kids.....you both agreed no kids from the beginning. Can’t really blame her for still feeling the same. I have guys on this forum tell me i would be a great father (thank you guys) - but i just don’t see myself as a dad. Not something i desire. Luckily my old lady doesn’t want kids either. </p><p></p><p>Lots to think about. A true heart to heart would do a lot of good, but only if both parties listen.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Zemedici, post: 16113300, member: 146355"] Tough spot indeed, op. After reading through the entire thread. I have one question, and think truthfully. Do you feel your wife has your back, 100%? I’m distant from my old ladies folks, but that’s due to circumstance. Tanya understands, and accepts that fact. Her parents are VASTLY different from mine, as mine are more involved / caring. Tanyas grown to enjoy my parents company, and i cherish that. It’s important to compromise. Does your wife KNOW her not helping with your mom bothers you? Does she KNOW you have total control over your drinking, and she need not worry? 4 beers a week is far from abnormal. People i know (when they were a functioning alcoholic) drank 12-18 per day. For years. Never went to work drunk, never late to work. 4 beers is nothing. The kids.....you both agreed no kids from the beginning. Can’t really blame her for still feeling the same. I have guys on this forum tell me i would be a great father (thank you guys) - but i just don’t see myself as a dad. Not something i desire. Luckily my old lady doesn’t want kids either. Lots to think about. A true heart to heart would do a lot of good, but only if both parties listen. [/QUOTE]
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