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SVTPerformance's Chain of Restaurants
Road Side Pub
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<blockquote data-quote="kirks5oh" data-source="post: 14789491" data-attributes="member: 23235"><p>i never tallied our lawyer fees. obviously, i paid for her lawyer too. at the very least, it was over quick, and i didn't have to go to court except for the final settlement hearing. wisconsin is a 50/50, no fault state. they view divorce as damaging to the community as a whole, and look to restore equality to the community. both financially and in terms of the children. it sucks to see everything split right down the middle, but i have 50% custody, which is remarkable. and i have become the better half (by far) when it comes to the kids--it wasn't always this way--i worked way too much previously. i live in a small town, and still have to see her and her idiot bf at the ymca, and other places. and everybody knows everybody's business. she lost all her friends, and has had to go back to work. oh well, its not my fault. in the end, the kids are even better off because i'm healthier, and they don't see us arguing non-stop. </p><p></p><p> i will say it is hard as hell to raise kids and work. my hats off to single parents who have their kids 100% of the time. i use a nanny two days a week for a couple hours on weeks when i have them. but packing lunches, taking them to activities, going to and from school, baths, bedtime, preparing meals, and interacting with them and being a good parent is difficult when you have a demanding, full time career. add to that doing household stuff (cleaning, bills, etc etc), and there's little time left to have a relationship or go to the gym. when i have the kids for a week its busy as hell. when i don't have them, its almost like being in college--only with an unlimited bankroll.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kirks5oh, post: 14789491, member: 23235"] i never tallied our lawyer fees. obviously, i paid for her lawyer too. at the very least, it was over quick, and i didn't have to go to court except for the final settlement hearing. wisconsin is a 50/50, no fault state. they view divorce as damaging to the community as a whole, and look to restore equality to the community. both financially and in terms of the children. it sucks to see everything split right down the middle, but i have 50% custody, which is remarkable. and i have become the better half (by far) when it comes to the kids--it wasn't always this way--i worked way too much previously. i live in a small town, and still have to see her and her idiot bf at the ymca, and other places. and everybody knows everybody's business. she lost all her friends, and has had to go back to work. oh well, its not my fault. in the end, the kids are even better off because i'm healthier, and they don't see us arguing non-stop. i will say it is hard as hell to raise kids and work. my hats off to single parents who have their kids 100% of the time. i use a nanny two days a week for a couple hours on weeks when i have them. but packing lunches, taking them to activities, going to and from school, baths, bedtime, preparing meals, and interacting with them and being a good parent is difficult when you have a demanding, full time career. add to that doing household stuff (cleaning, bills, etc etc), and there's little time left to have a relationship or go to the gym. when i have the kids for a week its busy as hell. when i don't have them, its almost like being in college--only with an unlimited bankroll. [/QUOTE]
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