Long time poster to car forums and former (whipple) Cobra owner. Throw away account obviously. Long story short, was involved with a woman who was living two lives and we're in the process of sorting this out.
I let her hang herself hard enough I've got total leverage here. I set the terms, she signs the papers. That's how it has been and its taken a long long time to get here boys. Those of you that have gone through this know what its like when you meet the "real her."
Anyways, I'm having trouble finding objective opinions about being a part time father. I'm trying to be honest with myself here and I know watching these kids 50\50 is not going to be something I adjust to. I'm looking to either start another family or spend most of my time on the road traveling for work.
So my thoughts are a Friday night through Monday morning once a month + holidays + whenever I feel like it type arrangement. But I need to hear from guys that have lost their everything you know?
Would appreciate the guilt trippers to save their replies, because I feel none. I've been given the green light by more than one professional to put some distance between me and this person. Now I just need to understand what its like on the other side.
Reading stuff like this is obviously terrifying
Appreciate any input guys, thanks.
I let her hang herself hard enough I've got total leverage here. I set the terms, she signs the papers. That's how it has been and its taken a long long time to get here boys. Those of you that have gone through this know what its like when you meet the "real her."
Anyways, I'm having trouble finding objective opinions about being a part time father. I'm trying to be honest with myself here and I know watching these kids 50\50 is not going to be something I adjust to. I'm looking to either start another family or spend most of my time on the road traveling for work.
So my thoughts are a Friday night through Monday morning once a month + holidays + whenever I feel like it type arrangement. But I need to hear from guys that have lost their everything you know?
Would appreciate the guilt trippers to save their replies, because I feel none. I've been given the green light by more than one professional to put some distance between me and this person. Now I just need to understand what its like on the other side.
Reading stuff like this is obviously terrifying
I traveled recently for 3 weeks and when I came back my kids didn't fully recognize me and I wanted to die after putting them to bed and them not really warming up to me. My oldest was talking to me like I was a stranger and telling me things that happened months ago that I was there for. It was like she forgot me.
Appreciate any input guys, thanks.