Question about an Ex

[THE_STIG]

DUDE!!!

Grow some balls!!! ... and some brains!!!

She dumped you because someone else started pumping that ass. If you wanna go beg her for sloppy seconds, be my guest! Otherwise, let her go. You will find someone new in time.

You are a complete tool, stop posting.


To the OP, just forget about her, there are other fish in the sea. :beer:

 

[phatboy40]

just let it be and go get u another one

 

[supachargd2k5]

I know how you feel but most everyones right. Just let it be and if she comes back down the road and youre still interested then go for it.

 

[stocksvtcontour]

You are a complete tool, stop posting.


To the OP, just forget about her, there are other fish in the sea. :beer:

He may be a tool but he is probably right.:nonono:

 

[Solopony]

Damn I didn't think this thread was going to be this long. I guess most of you guys are right. It's just ****ed up that in the 2 years we were together I broke it off with her twice(because she was ****ing up) and she came crawling back both of those times begging. as for the cheating thing we lived together and that wasn't possibly an option. I know she moved and couldn't/ wouldn't drive by anyhow.

 

[Don Juan]

The only time you contact your ex it's when you want some, that should be it, other than that it's a big no no to contact her after 8 months, out of the blue, on v-day.

 

[Solopony]

I've decided the whole vday thing is retarded but I might send an email or something to her to see how things are going. She was in the process of recording a CD and I helped alot with her music when she first started to write it.

 

[bnd3672]

Dear Ex,

It's Valentines Day and I'm desperate and lonely. How about you?

Sincerely,

Loser


Seriously, if it's been a while and you still really want her back, I guess you have nothing to lose. Just don't make a desperate attempt, be friendly.

If I were you, though, I'd find somebody else and forget about her.

 

[Chopin]

He may be a tool but he is probably right.:nonono:

If a chick dumps you out of the blue, 9 times out of 10, she's found something else. Otherwise, there would be some precipitating event.

Although I might be considered a "tool" for bring this harsh reality to his attention in a harsh way...

Sometimes that is EXACTLY what it takes to get through the fog of emotions which is clouding the judgment.

If I am right, and my harshness made the reality sink in, then I'm not a tool at all. Rather, I'm the guy that just saved this fellow from some more heart ache.

So, South NJ Stang, quit being a tool.

 

[Sinnz28]

Move on and look around, there is plenty of women to go around.

good luck.

 

[badboycali_559]

Girls are expendable and replaceable. But your cars are the only thing "dependable".

:bowdown::bowdown::bowdown:

 

[ff500]

Believe it or not I met my wife on match.com, we only lived a mile from each other and if it wasn't for match.com we would have never met,check it out doesn't hurt you may find someone else who is better for you.

 

[PGreenSVT]

Life is too short for reruns. Let it go and move on. If it didn't work the first 3 TIMES what makes you think the next will be any different. New ass is always more exciting anyway.

 

[JDStud6]

she's already getting poked by someone else, leave it alone

JD

 

[RDJ]

Where is LL and his www.boofrigginwhowhatdoIdo.com link?

I propose a new SVT Rule: ALL EX-GF / cheating gf/wife or other relationship advice threads MUST be posted in smackdown.

 

[SnakePitRacing]

Oh man! If it has been 8 months and she hasnt contacted you at all, youre done. You say she broke up with you out of the blue right? Thats what you think. Nobody just does that. If it was on a whim, she would have called you by now. It was over for her long before she said anything. In other words she has been over you for a year or more. Just move on bro. Forget about her. Its for your own good.

 

[66speed]

Come on now man? Are you serious? Yall are done. Get over it. If you absolutely must look like a loser, give her a call and just see how she has been. She might be willing to hang out.

 

[anc2514]

on valentines day, yeah it'd be creepy. i'd just talk to her sometime soon...otherwise it'd be way too transparent as to what your there for. The cliche of getting back with your ex on v-day is extremely overrated.

just get in touch with her somehow and bring it on EASY. Don't make it sound either desperate, nor apathetic. Just friendly. Work from there.

never lay all your cards out on the table unless your truely ready for any and everything bad that can happen...to happen.

x2

 

[SID297]

DUDE!!!

Grow some balls!!! ... and some brains!!!

She dumped you because someone else started pumping that ass. If you wanna go beg her for sloppy seconds, be my guest! Otherwise, let her go. You will find someone new in time.

This is not Smack Down, watch the attitude.

 

[RedfireVNM]

My ex broke up with me on New Years Day...idk she just wanted to do her own thing and i guess it just wasnt ment to be. It was hard being with someone for even just a year and then just stop talking to them, you get so used to having someone to talk to, someone to be with, just someone to even care about. You will prolly even dial her number not even meaning to, trust me iv done it. You will eventually get over it, it will take a while tho so be prepared...Just try to do things for you and look forward in your life. However, it is alright to see how they are doing if it didnt end harshly...Just make it a quick convo or a couple texts, just enough to see how they are doing. You dont need to make yourself look desperate even tho you might be. Letting her know you still think about her isnt a bad thing, just try to keep your distance.

Sometimes we F up and theres nothing we can do about it but look forward and try not to make the same mistakes over again. But since we are only human we will make mistakes, we will lie, we will be...well...human. Hope it helps & Good Luck