She’s fortunately been fixed for 13 years
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She’s fortunately been fixed for 13 years
Dude you can probably annul it.
Either way, you have one life to live.
Why the hell waste any on this broad. **** that shit!
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Either way, you have one life to live.
Why the hell waste any on this broad. **** that shit!
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Why get married if your not having kids?
That’s a good point, definitely a possibility… in any event bailing out on that bullshit is the best option…
This^^
Take if from someone who is currently going through this shit sandwich…
I knew I should have left 5 years ago, but felt guilty because I had done some shitty things in the past and knew that me leaving would change the entire families lives and financial wellbeing.
I stayed too long.
If I’d have left when my gut told me to, she wouldn’t have been able to pull this common law bullshit and trying to take half my business, or having me paying her over $5k a month spousal support during the interim…
Again, once this is all over I will literally post it all in this thread, but I can’t tell any details right now as her psycho ass has an account on here just to follow me.
Comp, ****ing run, I promise you from what you’ve shared…it WILL NOT get any better.
Those exact words came from my wife's siblings.....
Where does it say you get married to have **** trophies? Plenty people having kids and not getting married....
Zero kids here, married 21 years and together for 27 years....
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Meanwhile, Muhammad and his 3 wives have 20 kids and are breading the White race out of existence...
Not that this should be the reason to have kids...
You can thank feminism for destroying families.
Women are now indoctrinated that being a mother and housewife is beneath them, that they are equal and getting a career outside the home is more virtuous.
Society/Government has pushed this because getting both parents earning an income drives wages down and taxes up. The Government loves taxes, and women working just feeds that ideology.
Not that this should be the reason to have kids...
You can thank feminism for destroying families.
Women are now indoctrinated that being a mother and housewife is beneath them, that they are equal and getting a career outside the home is more virtuous.
Society/Government has pushed this because getting both parents earning an income drives wages down and taxes up. The Government loves taxes, and women working just feeds that ideology.
Understood completely.
My wife and I have never had any joint accounts, been together 15 years, married 12. Just last week it came up again. I think somehow it relates to her recent job stress, and I hear a lot of "so and so doesn't have to work" crap. And when I point out women we know from church, our neighborhood that do work, I get called an a-hole. Her job is full time work from home...
I pay the mortgage, electricity, water, cell phones, Internet, TV, everything except the car insurance and groceries.
I make probably 2.5x what she does, but pay for way more as is.
Yeah. I can see that work for some people.
My wife and I have a joint account. She doesn't work, there's no way we could run our 4 kids all over hell and back if she was working. It's worth $50k/year for her to stay home.
I pay for our rent, the monthly concierge doctor, the car insurance, 90% of the groceries. And any time we go out.
She pays. HER car payment. Cell phone, water, electricity, and streaming services.
I’ve shown her on paper how much more I spend than her. “ yeah but it’s still not fair.. you make more so you should spend way more..”
Well.. I do… and she’s still outspending me on frivolous bullshit
Marriage is a contract. The main reason for the contract is to remind the husband and wife to make things work out for kids to have a full time mom and dad, and to make it hard for the contract signers to walk away from the family if times get tough. Ive never needed a reason to have a contract to have a girlfriend. Some people feel the need I guess but IMO a marriage contract is completely unnecessary for a couple without children. Why do you need to sign something with the government to declare you are having sex with another person? Or in your case not having sex? Its stupid.
Dude, like others have said, the faster you split, the easier it will be. Don’t wait around too long.
Please invite my ex over for dinner that day. I had high hopes for Covid doing the job.
The way I see it, you do 1 of 2 things.
1. FULLY commit and marry. Joint accounts, joint taxes, kids - large family.. the whole nine.
OR
2. Dont marry. Remain independent people who simply romantically commit to each other. No kids. You do you when applicable, she do she when applicable. You keep your shit, she keeps hers.
1. FULLY commit and marry. Joint accounts, joint taxes, kids - large family.. the whole nine.
OR
2. Dont marry. Remain independent people who simply romantically commit to each other. No kids. You do you when applicable, she do she when applicable. You keep your shit, she keeps hers.
Agreed.
I wouldn't trade my family for anything.. .love our current set up.
But I can also fully understand why folks choose not to marry. Totally get it. And if for some God-forsaken reason my situation fell apart-- I'd never marry again lol.
But I can also fully understand why folks choose not to marry. Totally get it. And if for some God-forsaken reason my situation fell apart-- I'd never marry again lol.
LOL, sometimes I think about the transgression of a relationship and it just makes me laugh:
In general (I know this isn't everyone):
Meet
Get to know each other
Want to hang out all the time
Become enamored/Fall in love
Want to spend all your time with them
Slowly become bored
Become disinterested
Start to separate yourself/feelings from the person
Begin to get irritated over things
Start to argue
Start to want to spend less time with them
Begin to hate/resent them
Wish they were dead
Find someone new and repeat the process.
ROFLMAO!!!!
In general (I know this isn't everyone):
Meet
Get to know each other
Want to hang out all the time
Become enamored/Fall in love
Want to spend all your time with them
Slowly become bored
Become disinterested
Start to separate yourself/feelings from the person
Begin to get irritated over things
Start to argue
Start to want to spend less time with them
Begin to hate/resent them
Wish they were dead
Find someone new and repeat the process.
ROFLMAO!!!!
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