Be careful. If she senses you’re dumping her, boom she’s knocked up! Then, there you are…
She’s fortunately been fixed for 13 years
Be careful. If she senses you’re dumping her, boom she’s knocked up! Then, there you are…
That’s a good point, definitely a possibility… in any event bailing out on that bullshit is the best option…Dude you can probably annul it.
Either way, you have one life to live.
Why the hell waste any on this broad. **** that shit!
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Why get married if your not having kids?
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The way she's waving those red flags in your face @CompOrange04GT , I'd jump ship sooner rather than later. Each passing day, you're going to get ****ed harder.
Those exact words came from my wife's siblings.....Why get married if your not having kids?
Honestly .. I don’t know what the dream is.
Today we are texting…
And she goes “ our undoing will be you not agreeing to a joint bank account “
I responded “ cool.. not the lack of sex.. the fact that we don’t touch. The fact that we don’t communicate at home.. the fact that we argue every day.. THAT isn’t the undoing. It’s the fact that you want access to more money. Got it “
Edit .. also I DONT MAKE A SHIT TON OF MONEY.
Like tf
Understood completely.
My wife and I have never had any joint accounts, been together 15 years, married 12. Just last week it came up again. I think somehow it relates to her recent job stress, and I hear a lot of "so and so doesn't have to work" crap. And when I point out women we know from church, our neighborhood that do work, I get called an a-hole. Her job is full time work from home...
I pay the mortgage, electricity, water, cell phones, Internet, TV, everything except the car insurance and groceries.
I make probably 2.5x what she does, but pay for way more as is.
Understood completely.
My wife and I have never had any joint accounts, been together 15 years, married 12. Just last week it came up again. I think somehow it relates to her recent job stress, and I hear a lot of "so and so doesn't have to work" crap. And when I point out women we know from church, our neighborhood that do work, I get called an a-hole. Her job is full time work from home...
I pay the mortgage, electricity, water, cell phones, Internet, TV, everything except the car insurance and groceries.
I make probably 2.5x what she does, but pay for way more as is.
Marriage is a contract. The main reason for the contract is to remind the husband and wife to make things work out for kids to have a full time mom and dad, and to make it hard for the contract signers to walk away from the family if times get tough. Ive never needed a reason to have a contract to have a girlfriend. Some people feel the need I guess but IMO a marriage contract is completely unnecessary for a couple without children. Why do you need to sign something with the government to declare you are having sex with another person? Or in your case not having sex? Its stupid.Lmfao … the ****.
You realize marriage isn’t just to reproduce… right?
I pay for our rent, the monthly concierge doctor, the car insurance, 90% of the groceries. And any time we go out.
She pays. HER car payment. Cell phone, water, electricity, and streaming services.
I’ve shown her on paper how much more I spend than her. “ yeah but it’s still not fair.. you make more so you should spend way more..”
Well.. I do… and she’s still outspending me on frivolous bullshit
Please invite my ex over for dinner that day. I had high hopes for Covid doing the job.My ex, on the other hand.... I wouldn't shed a tear if an astroid struck the Earth and buried her house 1000' underground.
The way I see it, you do 1 of 2 things.
1. FULLY commit and marry. Joint accounts, joint taxes, kids - large family.. the whole nine.
OR
2. Dont marry. Remain independent people who simply romantically commit to each other. No kids. You do you when applicable, she do she when applicable. You keep your shit, she keeps hers.
LOL, sometimes I think about the transgression of a relationship and it just makes me laugh:
In general (I know this isn't everyone):
Meet
Get to know each other
Want to hang out all the time
Become enamored/Fall in love
Want to spend all your time with them
Slowly become bored
Become disinterested
Start to separate yourself/feelings from the person
Begin to get irritated over things
Start to argue
Start to want to spend less time with them
Begin to hate/resent them
Wish they were dead
Find someone new and repeat the process.
ROFLMAO!!!!