I've always looked at life a bit more simply (in terms of importance) whereas friends lived for the now rather than the later. My money is spent wisely for the most part. Sure I buy nonsense every now and again but I tend to put the majority of money into savings, my house and certain intrinsic pieces. My wife always says I never ask for anything so when I actually do want something, I'll get it.....after much debate and research while weighing the pros and cons of said purchase.