Well I have been dating this girl for seven months. She has had pancreititis, had to have a feeding tube in her stomach, all this time she has been unable to have sex, which I thought was a wierd thing, because she would want to mess around just no intercourse. I stayed beside her, loved her, drove 300 miles to sleep on the hospitial floor beside of her for 3 days. Bought her a $5,000 dollar ring, which I took back because she said it was too gaudy. All this time she wouldn't take me to her church for anything. I started thinking about it and one day I just told her I was going to go and visit. Here is when it started, she broke it off saturday. Then last night while talking to her I got her to admit that she was seeing her ex at church! So all this time of oh I love you, all these trips to charleston everything, and she was still attached to him. Im just glad we didn't get married or anything..... I feel like kicking someones ass, but it is not his fault. Should I at least call him and let him know that she dated me for about a year? Or just let it go? :beer: