I've never been impressed with the hybrid's fuel mileage numbers. I had a friend with a hybrid camry and he was always in the low 30's, and the car was gutless.
Manual trans civics can reach upper 30's, maybe 40. VW TDI's can get 40+. I had a friend with a little saturn 4cyl/5spd car that routinely got 44.
Anything above that and fuel mpg differences become very negligible.
I'm the same way. It seems like you would never make your money back on one if you compare it to something like a Civic.