best way to install lower control arms(rear). I have a set of race ramps to put them up on. should i keep all the pressure on the rear tire when installing them or pressure off and have the side that im installing dangling.
Yup that's how I did mine, too.
Nope, that install method has worked perfectly. I've even removed them to inspect them to make sure they looked ok after a couple thousand miles and to make sure the grease was getting everywhere it needed to, and everything looked good. Also like RBB said earlier do one side completely then do other side. If you remove LCAs at once the axle position can shift and make it more difficult to position it properly.
Is everyone using new Ford bolts front and rear?
Unless the bolts and nuts are a one time only use item, Ford is protecting their butts, liability wise. Since this hardware is associated with life and death and Ford has no idea of the history of the old parts, they would rather replace than litigate.
They are listed as one time use. I would guess liability is the only real reason.