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I love when we need to leave at 3:45 to be somewhere at 4 yet she doesn't even start getting ready until 3. As if it's a surprise that we had the plans she had known about for at least a week in advance... Got a 45-min nap on the couch while I waited for her.

Me: I wouldn't mind being on time once in a while.
Her: I'm never on time for anything. Everyone knows this.
Me: Well, when I'm on my own, I'm always on time if not early.
Her: It doesn't take you as long to get ready!
Me: Since you know it takes you 90min, why don't you plan accordingly?
Her: I guess...
I started telling my wife we have to leave 20-30min earlier than we actually have to

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So,

update to this:

the first one. So she calls me randomly two days ago. I’m like wtf… so… said girl that a friend was trying to hook me up, has now decided SHE has a friend she wants to hook me up with. So now, I’m talking to the friend of the friend haha.
Crazy part.. the friend is 35, never Been married, no kids, but also sober. Which right now I can’t drink due to the new meds I’m on.


Second girl, tells me she wants me to talk to her cousin. Realized her cousin likes me on Friday morning and now ALL OF A SUDDEN she liked me again…. Andddddd ended up at my place Friday night



though I did go on a really good lunch date Saturday.

Things are looking up for you.

Those poor girls though....
 
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In my personal life, experience, I haven't met a woman without mental/emotional problems. My younger brother married, divorced a psychopath whos on depression medication. Women scare me. Imagine getting serious, moving in and finding out she is a unstable woman hell bent on total control. The modern woman sucks. Finding a good woman is damn near impossible.
 

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In my personal life, experience, I haven't met a woman without mental/emotional problems. My younger brother married, divorced a psychopath whos on depression medication. Women scare me. Imagine getting serious, moving in and finding out she is a unstable woman hell bent on total control. The modern woman sucks. Finding a good woman is damn near impossible.

I have but only female relatives that are well past menopause. Sometimes they get old enough to stop worrying about everything and caring what others think. Eliminate child rearing responsibilities, give them comfortable finances and sometimes they can become rational creatures. I'm sure their husbands would have said they were still f'ing nuts between ages 25-50 though. Even my mom, who we frequently (half) joked should be in a mental hospital (my grandma and 2 aunts actually were committed to inpatient mental health facilities at various points), is fairly calm at age 64 now.

Those few rational women really highlight the reason why there is simply no mentally stable woman of child bearing age. Between their natural hormone fluctuations, drive to have children, vanity, jealousy, Disney Princess complex and current societal norms, they are all f'ing insane. I'm the farthest person from a feminist you'll ever meet but it is simply fact that they all will possess a base level of crazy and it's not really their fault. Now some do nothing to control that crazy and take it WAY too far.
 

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In my personal life, experience, I haven't met a woman without mental/emotional problems. My younger brother married, divorced a psychopath whos on depression medication. Women scare me. Imagine getting serious, moving in and finding out she is a unstable woman hell bent on total control. The modern woman sucks. Finding a good woman is damn near impossible.

I mean to be honest, I know plenty of men that are ****ed in the head too.

At this point I would say the biggest thing to me - is talking to people that are married, even the ones that stay that way and have been that way for a long time seem fairly unhappy a lot of the time. I don't think I even need all the fingers on just one hand to count the number of marriages where I would look at it and say - ya, they make me wanna do that.

At the same time, to reference The Subtle Art of Not Giving A ****, single people have certain problems because they don't have a significant other and married people have their own set of problems because they do.
 

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Things are looking up for you.

Those poor girls though....

it took a long time. Realizing I was the problem.
It’s why I got into therapy and I’m now on meds.

can’t let my issues be the determining factor on why all my relationships fail
 

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In my personal life, experience, I haven't met a woman without mental/emotional problems. My younger brother married, divorced a psychopath whos on depression medication. Women scare me. Imagine getting serious, moving in and finding out she is a unstable woman hell bent on total control. The modern woman sucks. Finding a good woman is damn near impossible.

found a “ good woman “ I thought a few years back. Posted her in the gf pic thread years ago.


Had a great job in Utah. Knew her. Knew her friends. 6 foot tall, 150 pounds drop dead smoking hot. No kids. Never been married.

I move her into my house.. things are great. She gets a GREAT job.. and then decides.. she’s just not going to go to work. Day after day.. just on the couch watching tv.. doing NOTHING.

so I call her dad.. like wtf man. Found out she’s bipolar schizophrenic, and I guess every year or so would think she’s “ okay “ and get off her pills.

she went from girl I wanted a forever with to girl I literally didn’t know who I was waking up next to. Then the anger issues came… and I had to call her dad and say drive 10 hours and get her out or the cops will
 

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I started telling my wife we have to leave 20-30min earlier than we actually have to.

That's a good plan. ha It won't often jive for me, though, because she handles the scheduling/calendar of events. For now I've made it clear that I will openly throw her under the bus if/when we're called out for being tardy.
 

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it took a long time. Realizing I was the problem.
It’s why I got into therapy and I’m now on meds.

can’t let my issues be the determining factor on why all my relationships fail

It's cool man, at some point I think we've all looked in the mirror and questioned if our current actions were counterproductive towards success in life.
 

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"A girl over 25 that's that good looking with no kids, no husband? She must be nuttier than squirrel shit." ~Uncle Ruckus, no relation

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I’d say it more like low to mid 30s where you know there’s an issue.

Literally the worst ones to deal with. Tend to have a chip on their shoulder


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I use to say that when my ex would watch the bachelor shows. “Something wrong with everyone of those m’fers.”
 

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