Dude youre WAY too young to be locked down to 1 chick for 5 whole years. That the best years of your life . I would live it up and have fun. You cant force anything. Some day you will look back and think what a fool you have been. Notch up the ole bed post and live your life!
So I went to the bar with my friend Sam (girl) for her darts game. She asked me to come, she's like a sis. Got to talking to this girl Nicole, she said you gonna take my number or what, I gave her my phone and got it. Tried to give her a ride home but she said no and that she is staying by her friends. I offer to stay by me and she says she doesn't do that the first night but to text or call her. Good looking girl 5'2-3 maybe 100 lbs. I actually miss being single now lol. Thanks for the help you guys, really put me in a better mood. Past few days I go from a oh I miss her mood, to F her, to an eh oh well mood. This really helps.
OP...you are living with a woman that you are just dating. There is no commitment in your relationship and when you have that kind of a foundation well you are going to be caught up in these kind of situations. Unfortunately, a lot of guys today kid themselves believing that because a girl lives with you that it equates to her making a commitment. You need to value yourself a little more too. If a woman continues to treat you the way she has been treating you, then you need to realize that love doesn't behave that way and its time to move on. It is not normal to constantly have disagreements and hostilities in a relationship. And guys that think it is are in a dysfunctional relationship and it will never last. There are so many good women out there that it baffles me why you would want to put yourself in a stressful situation like this. People lose their health all the time because of stress like this and this is no way to live.
Set the box out on the porch at 10:50, change the locks, don't let that bitch in the house.... Plain and simple.
LOL @ Keep my stuff, then "don't touch my stuff!"
I'd write a note that said, "Thanks for everything, I never knew how great life could be without you. You were holding me back and I now see that, have a good life." LOL
Be glad this happened now and not after you footed the bill to put her through school.
So I went to the bar with my friend Sam (girl) for her darts game. She asked me to come, she's like a sis. Got to talking to this girl Nicole, she said you gonna take my number or what, I gave her my phone and got it. Tried to give her a ride home but she said no and that she is staying by her friends. I offer to stay by me and she says she doesn't do that the first night but to text or call her. Good looking girl 5'2-3 maybe 100 lbs. I actually miss being single now lol. Thanks for the help you guys, really put me in a better mood. Past few days I go from a oh I miss her mood, to F her, to an eh oh well mood. This really helps. BTW she (Liz) text me tonight and here was our convo:
Her: Just a heads up I'm calling Com Ed tomorrow to have the electric taken out of my name
Me: You can pick up your stuff tomorrow. I'll have it bagged up
Her: Keep it
Me: Ok well it's going in the dumpster tomorrow then
Me: I want the key too. You can just slide it under the door if you'd like
Her: I told you I don't want you touching my stuff. I'll come get it when you aren't there
Me: You just said keep it?
Me: I'd prefer someone be there when you get it. I don't trust you
Her: OK I'll bring Tanya
Me: Ok
Me: Get it tomorrow or it'll be outside
Her: Ok
Her: It'll be around 11
This... except for the note. Box it up, she's not the boss anymore, she can't tell you not to. Change the locks regardless of whether or not she's giving the key back, copies could've been made and you need to assert your control of the situation. I wouldn't throw the note out there, it suggests bitterness (emotion) and that's what she's expecting.
FWIW, I got footed the school bill. It sucks hardcore, but I've learned not to put my neck out so far and take care of myself first. Expensive lesson but nothing I can do about it now.
Set the box out on the porch at 10:50, change the locks, don't let that bitch in the house.... Plain and simple.
LOL @ Keep my stuff, then "don't touch my stuff!"
Ditch the bitch an PIIT(Tanya)B