Been dating a woman for about a year and a half. She has 2 kids (I have none). The kids are 2 (girl) and 8 (boy). I have good relationships with both of them and they still see their father every week too. The boy wrestles and competes in tournaments once or twice a month, all of which I have attended even though they are usually at least 1-2 hour drive away and it consumes a whole Saturday every time you go to one. He may actually wrestle 3-5 times during these, depending on how well he does which I love to see, but the rest of the 7-8 hrs you are there is spent waiting and waiting which SUCKS.
Anyway, a local race event is going on that I don't want to miss that will be during the same time as the next tournament. I asked her if she minded if I went to this instead of to the tournament this one time, and she flipped out, Ive ruined her weekend for even asking, I don't want anything to do with the kids, blah blah blah..
I have been to every tournament and game that I was able to go to since the beginning. This kid plays EVERY sport.
We are serious, live together, but not married or engaged.
The boys father and most of his family are always at these tournaments, so he has PLENTY of support. I rarely get to even speak to him during these things because he is with his father during most of them.
Am I wrong for asking/wanting to do something else I wanted to do here?
Anyway, a local race event is going on that I don't want to miss that will be during the same time as the next tournament. I asked her if she minded if I went to this instead of to the tournament this one time, and she flipped out, Ive ruined her weekend for even asking, I don't want anything to do with the kids, blah blah blah..
I have been to every tournament and game that I was able to go to since the beginning. This kid plays EVERY sport.
We are serious, live together, but not married or engaged.
The boys father and most of his family are always at these tournaments, so he has PLENTY of support. I rarely get to even speak to him during these things because he is with his father during most of them.
Am I wrong for asking/wanting to do something else I wanted to do here?