Well Im kinda mixed up about the entire thing. My wife being the loving person she is read an email about a little girl that didnt have a father on fathers day and it really touched her. She then went out of her way and did ALOT of research and tracked down my father who Ive never met. Ive talked to him a few times on the phone and saw him once (but didnt know who he was at the time). Well when I was younger I tried to get together with him a few times and something always came up. I was 12 and just wanted to spend a few hours with him. Now my wife got his phone number and called him today. He said that two people near him just died and this really isnt a good time. Im just wondering if I should pursue this or if Im just spinning my tires on something that will never be. I would give anything just to spend a day with him and have a few beers but Im just really mixed up. I trust you guys and gals on here to give me your honest input. Any statments would be helpful.