this can all be worked out in a matter of minutes...
King Roush = pick up the phone, call Paypal (1-888-221-1161), tell them what you did to refund the money, ask for the confirmation number of the refund and provide that information to the dhsmustang.
dhsmustang = once you have the confirmation # of the refund from the King Roush, call paypal (1-888-221-1161), tell them that you were refunded money and that it has not been posted to your account.
problem solved
I don't think this would work because he will not answer my phone calls and won't return my calls. If you weren't trying to screw me then why aren't you trying to help me out?