Hard to hear about any guy living this kind of life. Hope you get relief.
This marriage sounds a little like a dead battery. A small trickle might not bring it back to life. Might be that a really powerful jolt would kick start the process. Since you have suggested couples or marriage counseling and got rejected perhaps you need to try something a bit more hardcore.
I wonder what the reaction would be if you were to calmly and quietly suggest that the two of you go to a divorce mediator to find out what would be involved and whether a divorce would be best for you both. Confronting the idea that you are contemplating the final solution to your differences might make things a bit clearer to her and get the process moving.
Maybe she has already decided and just doesn't know how to tell you. Or maybe she would realize how serious it really is and decide to make the effort. Either way, at least you can start moving forward.
Good luck, man. Hope you find what you need.
This marriage sounds a little like a dead battery. A small trickle might not bring it back to life. Might be that a really powerful jolt would kick start the process. Since you have suggested couples or marriage counseling and got rejected perhaps you need to try something a bit more hardcore.
I wonder what the reaction would be if you were to calmly and quietly suggest that the two of you go to a divorce mediator to find out what would be involved and whether a divorce would be best for you both. Confronting the idea that you are contemplating the final solution to your differences might make things a bit clearer to her and get the process moving.
Maybe she has already decided and just doesn't know how to tell you. Or maybe she would realize how serious it really is and decide to make the effort. Either way, at least you can start moving forward.
Good luck, man. Hope you find what you need.