The only reason I might go easy on a brand new car is to see if it develops any weird noises before hitting it harder. Mainly so if it breaks, the damage might be limited. I doubt the break-in procedures are to eliminate catastrophic failures, more so to avoid longer term problems like ring seating, oil burning, etc.
I can see where u are going with your thinking and understand it. My thought is if there is a latent manufacturing defect, then it will show itself regardless.
You can baby it for a 100 miles, but if its already ready to break, it will break soon thereafter.
From what I can tell, Ford is watching these cars like hawks and rather replace the full engine so they can get it back for forensics over letting the dealer tear the motor apart and attempt repairs.........Steve