good. at least you are showing some ****ing balls.
Am I wrong here? (dating a woman with kids question)
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good. at least you are showing some ****ing balls.
You got yourself into a tough spot. You will always be number 2 but that does not mean you have to submit to everything she wants. Do whatever you want just prepare to deal with al the bs that comes along. It will also be a shitstorm if you two seperate due to them getting settled in your home.
This. I do not date moms. Period.
I am in the same situation as you are, GF with a kid but only difference is we don't live together. do what you want and be happy. it sounds like you're are a good dude and have the right intentions. If she can't compromise for something so small, then it may be Time to make a decision. Her reaction will give you a forecast for bigger things to come.
Just my two cents
My GF tried pulling that number on me and I set her straight.
I know she doesn't like me drag racing but there's No more nagging about small sh*t. I can always pack my stuff and leave, no biggie. Lots of fine women still out there.
Just my two cents
My GF tried pulling that number on me and I set her straight.
I know she doesn't like me drag racing but there's No more nagging about small sh*t. I can always pack my stuff and leave, no biggie. Lots of fine women still out there.
Btw had this exact same scenario last week
I went to Supercross instead of going to meet my girls extended family that was in town. There was a mix up on when I was supposed to meet them, apparently it was when i was at Supercross.
Wifey was mad, but she lived. Better to ask forgiveness than permission.
I went to Supercross instead of going to meet my girls extended family that was in town. There was a mix up on when I was supposed to meet them, apparently it was when i was at Supercross.
Wifey was mad, but she lived. Better to ask forgiveness than permission.
I definitely don't understand guys that don't have kids getting involved with women that do have kids. It never seems to work out and only cause problems. Better to leave the single moms to the single dads, that way the baggage is equal.
This... and run fast
Absolutely you should. She has to allow to pursue your passion and interests or you will resent her for it.
2nd for more notice though, as bitches are crazy and if they made up their mind your going nothing else matters.
And I woulda talked to the kid first seen what he thought, you got the kid on your side you win HA
Who cares about short notice?? Your plans don't affect hers, she can still go to the match and you can go to the race and the kid won't care either way. It's not like the kid won't be able to go or perform well if you aren't there. Sounds like might just be parading you around in front of her ex and his family? There's no logical reason for her to get that mad over it.
IMO, your first mistake was asking permission. She has kids, so they take precedent for HER, not for you. If you truly go to these matches and games all the time, missing one should mean nothing.
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You men are soft for putting up with bullshit from women.
Life's way too short to be miserable for even one Saturday a month. Most likely you don't love your work so if some bitch doesn't let you do what you want on weekends run the **** away.
I'd rather be single and happy and just pay for hookers then deal with women shit.
Btw I've been happily married for 18 years and we are both equals. Not having kids did not hurt either and we are both happy about it.
Life's way too short to be miserable for even one Saturday a month. Most likely you don't love your work so if some bitch doesn't let you do what you want on weekends run the **** away.
I'd rather be single and happy and just pay for hookers then deal with women shit.
Btw I've been happily married for 18 years and we are both equals. Not having kids did not hurt either and we are both happy about it.
What's the point of being in a relationship if you're not going to be head of the household anyways? Tell her that YOU want to go to the race event. Tell her that it's normal for guys to have lives and interests of their own and that if you knew that you were going to be in a ball-and-chain relationship, you would've never allowed it to get that far
You sound like a good man OP. You shouldn't have to sacrifice your free time and hobbies for someone else's kids.
OP sounds like a good man but has beta tendencies.
unless they are rich Cougars.
Yup. I dated a rich cougar who's kids were almost my age. This was before I was married.
Lol Track sluts.
Btw, glad you are going to the track OP. Seriously ONE time you want to do something after already doing everything else you've done and she's flipping out about it. Not a good sign my friend
So much bullshit in here I loled hard. Gotta love the interwebz
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