Having kids and cool toys are not mutually exclusive.
Go for it. It is worth everything that comes with it.
Go for it. It is worth everything that comes with it.
Just skip the kid and go straight to the grandkids. Much more fun.
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Not to hijack, but side-question that doesn't deserve its own thread. If someone works from home, could watching an infant be viable, or is it so demanding that there's no way it could be done? Assume the number of working hours do not change (meaning a 30m interruption adds 30m to the end of the day, same work output)
I'm specifically looking for a girl 4-5 years younger than me solely for the fact that most women wants kids around 24-27. I don't want kids til at least 30. I'm 25 now.Do it.
There's a four year difference between my wife and I. I wanted children right around your age (30) and she wasn't having it (at 26). It took a few more years after that conversation for her to get around to the idea of children. Eventually we had our first in 2016 and got really screwed with twins in 2019. We're financially stable, own a home, have our *stuff* together like responsible adults. She works 1 day a week to get that normal adult interaction.
I have three little girls now. After much discussion and the idea of trying for that boy, our doctor informed us we could have a have twins again. The idea of 5 girls, much less 5 children, is not for me.
It's great you're thinking this through. They are a big lifelong commitment. Good luck.
imo no
requires 100% of your attention. The second you look away is when they bash their head on something, or find scissors to play with.