holy crap dude, I just read this whole post and it was like a horrible drama movie with no ending. lol. FTMFW daily that bi***. Sounds like the previous over didn't show it love in many ways. Your a better man than me i would have been camo'd up in the woods by his house waiting for him! lol jk. I really hope you get this thing going, sounds like its slowly but surely getting there. Just remember nothing worth having comes easy. I had to brake my own car in like a wild horse. My AC broke, sprayed coolant at WOT(cracked radiator res), rear diff leaked, all in the first month. It'll get better.