and in terms of asset protection---i am not advocating HIDING assets. only protecting them. i notified my lawyer of all the money i moved, all the belongings i protected. as stated, its all traceable. i did this to prevent her from breaking them, or stealing them, etc. realize my ex had no job (stay at home mom). it would do me no good to take her to court for scratching my car, or stealing my laptop. its not like she was going to pay for the court costs/lawyer costs, and in the end, we were looking at the big picture (getting it over quickly, avoiding a trial, avoiding alimony, etc).
Yeah I was just pointing out what nobody had actually stated. There's been a lot of "move this, protect that" but no disclaimer that actually hiding that stuff may cause additional problems. That's simply why I advocated contacting an attorney about it.